How do you like oral sex? How many guys get it wrong?
#1
Posted 04 November 2006 - 09:56 PM
#2
Posted 05 November 2006 - 09:30 PM
I have read many things about licking pussy. I don't know if there is a best way. I think it is up to the female's response. I read one time that a guy should spell the alphabet with his tongue on a woman's pussy. I did it once and it worked. I got a compliment for being a great pussy licker. I didn't like the girl, so I haven't met her since. My choice. I think women stroke to hard or suck to hard on a man's penis. It gets sore or de-sensitized. Softness would bring a orgasm at times more than friction. Is it the same way with a woman's pussy? Is softeness with the tongue, sincerity, slowness a factor. Knowing when to put on the full blast? Just curious, Let me know. I think I have a lot to learn. Chad, wanting to learn
I definitely prefer soft and slow! Sincerity... yes. I would rather have none at all than have it grudgingly or without enthusiasm. I don't want a pity-suck.
There is one thing that's a real turn-off to me... and this may be just me, but it applies to any part of my body; nipples, pussy, and mouth when we're kissing. I hate it when the other person makes their tongue stiff and wags it rapidly back and forth over whatever body part they're kissing. I especially hate it when they breathe in while doing this. It's just not pleasant to me, and it "feels" like a shortcut to me. Like they're not actually enjoying it at all, just trying for maximum stimulation 'cause they're bored and want to be done.
What I love is tender strokes with the tongue firm but not hard, and some variance in the technique to keep me interested and engaged. I love to feel like it's turning HIM on too... which is one reason 69 or a position where I can reach his cock and stroke it while he's licking me is awesome.
#3
Posted 06 November 2006 - 07:54 AM
As to being sucked, it seems to me that most girls do too much movement up and down the shaft and not enough vaccum sucking on either the head or the whole thing......just the movement up and down the shaft is so much like a hot jack off......men just seem to do more sucking when they are sucking.
But, hey, I wouldn't turn down any of it!
#4
Posted 06 November 2006 - 08:43 AM
Interesting, Delores.....my wife likes to have her nips and her clit flicked rapidly by a hard tongue......she also likes it when I press my tongue against her button and rub it back and forth......and she likes when I close my mouth over her whole pussy and suck, she says it makes her clit and everything in there move.
As to being sucked, it seems to me that most girls do too much movement up and down the shaft and not enough vaccum sucking on either the head or the whole thing......just the movement up and down the shaft is so much like a hot jack off......men just seem to do more sucking when they are sucking.
But, hey, I wouldn't turn down any of it!
Yeah, I don't think there's any one-size-fits-all to oral sex or any erotic kissing. Every single person likes something different... part of the fun of getting to know every new lover.
#5
Posted 06 November 2006 - 09:47 AM
Dream Girl
#6
Posted 06 November 2006 - 11:47 AM
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#7
Posted 12 November 2006 - 10:18 PM
As much as I love sucking cock, I still enjoy licking a pussy also. I have been with several couples and while I dont fuck the wonam, I do lick her pussy before and after she has been fucked. Licking cum from a pussy can be fun. I have also been fucked by the man while eating pussy, and fucked by the woman with a dildo while sucking cock.
Life has been sooooo good for me.
Skip
#8
Posted 12 November 2006 - 11:34 PM
#9
Posted 13 November 2006 - 06:32 PM
Hi
As much as I love sucking cock, I still enjoy licking a pussy also. I have been with several couples and while I dont fuck the wonam, I do lick her pussy before and after she has been fucked. Licking cum from a pussy can be fun. I have also been fucked by the man while eating pussy, and fucked by the woman with a dildo while sucking cock.
Life has been sooooo good for me.
Skip
You definitely do have a good life. How did you find the couples that you have had sex with? Just curious. I think licking cum out of a pussy is a big turn on to me. I have no clue why. Maybe because it is on the edge of experimentation. I might not even like it, but would give it a try. You do have a good life. You have met some nice people that gave you some great sexual memories. Where did you meet them again? Chad, of course
#10
Posted 14 November 2006 - 08:09 PM
then she'd suck me. then we'd fuck.
my current girlfriend likes to 69.
then we fuck - then back to 69. fuck, 69, ....
we kiss pationately with dick and pussy juice all over our faces.
hhhmmmm...she may be a keeper.
as far as oral sex. I like soft, slow, more attention to the top half of the penis,
with an occasional deep suck. the wetter the better.
I guess I have a thing for slobber.
summit
#11
Posted 14 November 2006 - 08:16 PM
my ex-wife liked getting her pussy licked.
then she'd suck me. then we'd fuck.
my current girlfriend likes to 69.
then we fuck - then back to 69. fuck, 69, ....
we kiss pationately with dick and pussy juice all over our faces.
hhhmmmm...she may be a keeper.
as far as oral sex. I like soft, slow, more attention to the top half of the penis,
with an occasional deep suck. the wetter the better.
I guess I have a thing for slobber.
summit
I love 69 with my husband... I never used to, with other guys, but I guess we just have a good "fit".
#12 Guest_mastuba78_Guest
Posted 15 November 2006 - 08:48 AM
I agree with Dolores, everyone is different. Myself I like for Saxy to start out with light licking, playing around here and there and as the passion rises, get a little harder. A stiff tounge is a good thing. My most favorte thing that Saxy does to push me over the top? He can blow one mean Rasberry on my clit.
OHH I can't resist a reply here... I know Saxy blows a mean bari saxophone.... and I'm sure the rasberry is a delight..... But you gotta experience a tuba player some time!!
Mastuba.... who needs to go play the horn now.....
#13
Posted 16 November 2006 - 07:29 PM
I think each women is different. I alway take my cue by thier reaction. Some like it fast, some like it slow, some like it hard, some like it soft and some want all the above. I like to begin by enjoying her taste, smell and softness. I perfer women that enjoy having thier pussys filled with fingers or a fist while being eaten. I love when thier getting ready to cum and I get my face creamed by her pussy juice. I do beleive that if you enjoy it your going to be good at it.
I agree thomas. I let the women feel and try to sense their movements. Slow, sensitive, and soft is the way to go. The body movements tell the rest. I would love to learn how to turn on a woman more than I know. Some tell you and some leave it up to you. I love the smell and taste of a woman. I made my ex cum so many times that she made me stop because she was so sensitive. She even had some small spurting orgasms, that I love! I wanted to make her keep cumming. I wish she had done that to me a few times. Sex is intimacy and sex is also pleasure. When you feel things that excite you, it is a turn on. When those things stop, sex becomes boring. Sex is an important part of life. Good post, sincerely, Chad
#14
Posted 16 November 2006 - 07:38 PM
I agree with Dolores, everyone is different. Myself I like for Saxy to start out with light licking, playing around here and there and as the passion rises, get a little harder. A stiff tounge is a good thing. My most favorte thing that Saxy does to push me over the top? He can blow one mean Rasberry on my clit.
And, oh man, does it work! Combine the buzz with G-spot stim and you'd better have a good hold on her!
Saxy
saxy
#15
Posted 16 November 2006 - 07:44 PM
I agree with Dolores, everyone is different. Myself I like for Saxy to start out with light licking, playing around here and there and as the passion rises, get a little harder. A stiff tounge is a good thing. My most favorte thing that Saxy does to push me over the top? He can blow one mean Rasberry on my clit.
And, oh man, does it work! Combine the buzz with G-spot stim and you'd better have a good hold on her!
Saxy
OK! It sounds like we could use some real sex lessons here. Details, and maybe a book! I want to meet a girl that I can learn with also. What are my chances? I've given up. Just wondering about my future, Chad. I can probably be straight with the right person,,,,,,maybe! At least I will be loyal!

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