[Peej]

And, oh man, does it work! Combine the buzz with G-spot stim and you'd better have a good hold on her!

Saxy

LOL...I know this one! I almost got kicked in the head one night because I wasn't holding on tight enough.

[chad]

Interesting, Delores.....my wife likes to have her nips and her clit flicked rapidly by a hard tongue......she also likes it when I press my tongue against her button and rub it back and forth......and she likes when I close my mouth over her whole pussy and suck, she says it makes her clit and everything in there move.

As to being sucked, it seems to me that most girls do too much movement up and down the shaft and not enough vaccum sucking on either the head or the whole thing......just the movement up and down the shaft is so much like a hot jack off......men just seem to do more sucking when they are sucking.

But, hey, I wouldn't turn down any of it!

Yeah, I don't think there's any one-size-fits-all to oral sex or any erotic kissing. Every single person likes something different... part of the fun of getting to know every new lover.

I agree with you that it is all different. If you pay attention to the movements and responses of the other person, a lot can be learned. Responding to each other's body is pretty cool for both! Just my thoughts, Chad

[chad]

I agree with Dolores, everyone is different. Myself I like for Saxy to start out with light licking, playing around here and there and as the passion rises, get a little harder. A stiff tounge is a good thing. My most favorte thing that Saxy does to push me over the top? He can blow one mean Rasberry on my clit.

And, oh man, does it work! Combine the buzz with G-spot stim and you'd better have a good hold on her!

Saxy

Good post. I would turn my partner on in anyway that was pleasurable. I need to learn to hold on better! Thanks, Chad

[JorgeBook03]

Hi All, especially Dolores and Dream Girl,

I just read through this thread, and it makes me wonder, 'cause no one mentioned it. Why don't women tell their partners exactly what gets them off?

To be honest, I have lost count of the number of women I have licked over the last 33 years. Only two ever told me how they liked it done, both would have multiple orgasms.

Jorge

[Prairiepixie]

Hi All...

Dolores, I feel the same way as you. I definitely prefer soft and slow, although a firm tongue is good as well. I occasionally enjoy having my clit sucked on, just as long as it's not "flicked", etc. Gentle firm sucking on my clit feels good along with a firm tongue and/or fingers probing slowly and gently into my vagina.

Chad... that alphabet idea sounds interesting! And I agree with you about the sore and/or de-sensitized comment. The same happens with me with too much sucking or stroking...

Best wishes to all for a wonderful day, and smile often...

Pixie

I have read many things about licking pussy. I don't know if there is a best way. I think it is up to the female's response. I read one time that a guy should spell the alphabet with his tongue on a woman's pussy. I did it once and it worked. I got a compliment for being a great pussy licker. I didn't like the girl, so I haven't met her since. My choice. I think women stroke to hard or suck to hard on a man's penis. It gets sore or de-sensitized. Softness would bring a orgasm at times more than friction. Is it the same way with a woman's pussy? Is softeness with the tongue, sincerity, slowness a factor. Knowing when to put on the full blast? Just curious, Let me know. I think I have a lot to learn. Chad, wanting to learn

I definitely prefer soft and slow! Sincerity... yes. I would rather have none at all than have it grudgingly or without enthusiasm. I don't want a pity-suck.

There is one thing that's a real turn-off to me... and this may be just me, but it applies to any part of my body; nipples, pussy, and mouth when we're kissing. I hate it when the other person makes their tongue stiff and wags it rapidly back and forth over whatever body part they're kissing. I especially hate it when they breathe in while doing this. It's just not pleasant to me, and it "feels" like a shortcut to me. Like they're not actually enjoying it at all, just trying for maximum stimulation 'cause they're bored and want to be done.

What I love is tender strokes with the tongue firm but not hard, and some variance in the technique to keep me interested and engaged. I love to feel like it's turning HIM on too... which is one reason 69 or a position where I can reach his cock and stroke it while he's licking me is awesome.

[chad]

Hi All, especially Dolores and Dream Girl,

I just read through this thread, and it makes me wonder, 'cause no one mentioned it. Why don't women tell their partners exactly what gets them off?

To be honest, I have lost count of the number of women I have licked over the last 33 years. Only two ever told me how they liked it done, both would have multiple orgasms.

Jorge

That is a good point. If some is not honest about what turns them on, then how can their partner get better at it? Is it that same old not communicating thing , out of embarassment or not wanting to deal with it? Great sex takes great conversation. Just my opinion, Chad

[tiny]

i do know that i give a better blow job than my wife does. How do i teach a woman (my wife ) to give a better blow job?

[foothillbilly]

Hi All, especially Dolores and Dream Girl,

I just read through this thread, and it makes me wonder, 'cause no one mentioned it. Why don't women tell their partners exactly what gets them off?

To be honest, I have lost count of the number of women I have licked over the last 33 years. Only two ever told me how they liked it done, both would have multiple orgasms.

Jorge

That is a good point. If some is not honest about what turns them on, then how can their partner get better at it? Is it that same old not communicating thing , out of embarassment or not wanting to deal with it? Great sex takes great conversation. Just my opinion, Chad

I want to join in with this complaint, but also suggest that we (anybody who wants to know) should ask. I have done that and it usually works. I have never been attracted to "shrinking violets" of either gender; that might be more of a problem. I ask for specifics during the lead-up to the first time if the conversation goes that way, which often happens. If not, after the first time, I feel free to discuss the details of what we've done and to ask how I can do better. This has led to, among other things, at least two women who never had multiple orgasms before experiencing them with me.

Calvin

[chad]

Hi All, especially Dolores and Dream Girl,

I just read through this thread, and it makes me wonder, 'cause no one mentioned it. Why don't women tell their partners exactly what gets them off?

To be honest, I have lost count of the number of women I have licked over the last 33 years. Only two ever told me how they liked it done, both would have multiple orgasms.

Jorge

That is a good point. If some is not honest about what turns them on, then how can their partner get better at it? Is it that same old not communicating thing , out of embarassment or not wanting to deal with it? Great sex takes great conversation. Just my opinion, Chad

I want to join in with this complaint, but also suggest that we (anybody who wants to know) should ask. I have done that and it usually works. I have never been attracted to "shrinking violets" of either gender; that might be more of a problem. I ask for specifics during the lead-up to the first time if the conversation goes that way, which often happens. If not, after the first time, I feel free to discuss the details of what we've done and to ask how I can do better. This has led to, among other things, at least two women who never had multiple orgasms before experiencing them with me.

Calvin

You are right. I think talking about it makes it better the next time. If you want to please a women and think you did, you might know or not if she is being polite. If you get a blowjob that feels good, then let her know when it does. Don't we just want to please each other? Nice post, sincerely, Chad Tell me more

[summit]

I recently started dating a woman who enjoys oral sex as much as I do...what a gift.
when I cum in her pussy, she goes down and cleans my dick with her mouth for a long time.
we then dip our fingers in her pussy pulling out our juices and licking them off each others fingers.
when I cum in her mouth she brings it up to me and we share it together til it is all gone.
wow, what a turn on.

[galaxy1]

I agree with the comment that licking and sucking slow and easy is best - both for men and women as receivers. Many women can be kept in an orgasmic state by continued slow tongue application.

I have had some men as suckers who were too energetic -- it hurt rather than felt good.

Frank