[tomparkuk]

Like most other people in here, I started of as heterosexual and slowly developed my Bi side. Now a days I am more and more into Gay sex in my mind , even though actual opportunities are less. When I think about it, if I was not married, I probably would have been more gay with an occasional pussy on the side if i can get. But i would still be happy if i get to play with males only. Given a few more years i might turn into gay, i dont know. I know it all depends on circumstances (The more you get, the more you want).

PS: Please forgive the technicalities of the wordings of the poll. You know what i meant by this poll.

The second poll is entirely hypothetical but i just thought what would you honestly think about yourself.

[tomparkuk]

As I told earlier, the second poll is hypothetical and so i want you to consider only your sexual desires. I know marriage is a whole package and we all love our kids dearly and wouldnt have changed anything in the world for them. But i just want you to keep the kids and the rest of it, out of this (It is possible since this is hypothetical) :rolleyes:

[funguy37]

although I stopped engaging in m2m activities at 17... the thoughts never left me... i did want to marry have a family, and did just that. had I not married I probably would have returned to seeking out men for sexual contact...returned to m2m as a senior after my wife was no longer interested in sexual contact.

[creative]

I answered 50/50 and maybe. I really connect better emotionally with women and enjoy sex with them but am more sexually turned on by men.I love my wife and there is no one male or female Id rather be married to but if I had to do it over again I would have made living my life openly and authentically as a bisexual part of the marriage deal. I have some fears that my wife might not have married me under those conditions, which would have been a tragedy, but in light of how happy I am now that I openly accept my same sex attraction I feel somewhat a sense of regret that I repressed that part of me in shame for so many years.

Of course hindsight is wonderful and we live in a very different time then the early 70's. I can only imagine the reaction I would have gotten from my family and friends if I had tried to live life as an out of the closet bisexual back then. The reality is life isnt a dress rehearsal so perhaps things have worked out better this way. I was busy raising a family when aids first surfaced so that probably saved my life. Also after so many years I think my wife sees that Im a good enough husband that shes not going to let a little thing like the fact Im bisexual bother her.

I tell her its my gay side that makes me such a good husband and she now might even agree.

This post has been edited by creative: 08 March 2010 - 01:19 PM

[joe853]

I answered 50/50 and No
I do wish I had gotten into m2m sex as a teen, stupid but I now know I passed up a lot of hints and downright invitations and often jerked off later that night wishing I had availed of them.
If I was not married I would be openly bi, no doubt at all in my mind

[stillhoping]

joe853, on 13 March 2010 - 09:10 AM, said:

I answered 50/50 and No
I do wish I had gotten into m2m sex as a teen, stupid but I now know I passed up a lot of hints and downright invitations and often jerked off later that night wishing I had availed of them.
If I was not married I would be openly bi, no doubt at all in my mind

[stillhoping]

I put myself as bi, but more gay, even though I have not had sexual contact with a man in almost 25 years, since before I got married. The desire has never gone away.

As a teen I fooled around a little, most fairly innocent stuff, with a couple of male friends, but I also had a sexually active relationship with a woman all through college. Then I "came out", sort of, and became involved with men. When AIDS happened I was scared of dying like so many freinds and acquantances, and I knew I had to clean up my act. I wanted a monogamous relationship and foolishly got involved with a man too quickly. Without going into details, it was a bad experience and I decided that this gay life really wasn't working well for me. I also wanted children.

So I moved away, met a man, then a woman, told her about my past, gave up the man, married the woman and had children. The marriage hasn't always been so great, and we ar still having problmes. I don't know how much my feelings for men are involved in our problems. Not directly, but maybe underneath. I don't know.

Because my children are the best thing to ever happen to me, I would probably marry again. If not for the children, I might not.

I still have a fantasy to meet "Mr. Right", but don't actively look. Lately the desire to find him has been increasing, probably because the kids are about grown. I think that's why I joined this site.

[bear]

If I were to marry again, I would be open with the woman, and she would have to accept my need for m2m sex. Some such women do exist, but I would never expect to find one.

[JJSMEN]

I too wish I had excepted many proposals from other men, if i would have known back then what i know today i might have been openly bi.

but ove the two years or so i have desires for men and not for women. my wife and i have talked about it and she says she is afraid that i will like my male companion more then i would having sex with her. it might be.